Welcome to day 13- Dreamer ?
This chapter is asking you to dig deep, look inside yourself and believe in you.
It’s easy to just move through life without really thinking about it. One day turns into the next, and before you know it, you’re living on autopilot — doing what needs to be done, playing your roles, meeting expectations. every so often, a question quietly shows up and asks for attention.
Who are you beneath all this ?
Who are you without the labels? Daughter-Son, mother-father, niece- nephew , aunty-uncle , wife- husband, girlfriend-boyfriend.
What do you truly want?
Some people know exactly what they want. Others feel completely lost. And some of us know deep down — but don’t know how to begin. Where to start. Who to trust. How to put ourselves out there without fear of judgment.
But life is short. And people will have opinions whether you move or stay still. So at some point, the question shifts — not what will they think? but am I happy?
I’ve been with my husband for 24 years. We had our first son at 21, then three more children after that. Life moved fast. Raising kids. Running a home. Being everything to everyone else. Somewhere in all of that, I quietly placed myself on pause.
I always knew I was creative. That part of me never left — it just waited. Now, nearly 44, my children are older, and for the first time in a long time, I have space. Space to dream again. Space to breathe. Space to listen. Space to get to know myself again. And it feels both exciting and emotional.
Some people might say, why now?
But if you’re still breathing, your story isn’t finished. There’s still more for you. Purpose doesn’t disappear with time — it deepens.
This blog is part of my journey. People will read it. Some will judge it. And that’s okay. Because putting yourself out there always comes with opinions — but staying silent comes with regret.
I’m happy. I feel alive when I create. I feel hopeful knowing my words might help someone become a dreamer again.
So this chapter isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who I’ve always been.
What do you value most?
What makes your heart feel full?
What are you ready to release?
Sometimes growth isn’t about adding more to your life.
Sometimes it’s about uncovering what was there all along.
So tell me…
Who are you, really? What is your dream ?
Let me leave this with you : God doesn’t make mistakes, you were created on purpose and you have a purpose live the life God created you to have.
Love Shana xx